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December 25, 2022 at 11:33 pm #19461806jtphoenix03Participant
What do you all think about this? This was sent to me in 2017.
December 27, 2022 at 9:08 pm #19461946WesWWWParticipantI like the scenario where there’s some racial stereotyping and then a build up of sexual tension and mixture of mutual disrespect, I think I could be very erotic !
December 28, 2022 at 9:35 pm #19461986jtphoenix03ParticipantYEAH!!! I like that too. Here is another message from the same guy
December 31, 2022 at 5:34 am #19462067Barefoot WrestlerParticipantjtphoenix03, Weswww
Reading this, I had to think long and hard about how to respond to this diplomatically. Why and how it is difficult and why!
First off, I have found BWN generally has a no judgement zone for posts which is great. Having said that, it has always had a space for black vs black gay/bi wrestling, which the company was founded on. For the purpose and design for brothers and others who seek black vs black wrestling content not generally shown on the internet.
How fans who come here fantasize and view their wrestling fetish to see two black men wrestle is personal to each of us. But it is just that, black guys wrestling for other blacks and the many people into watching black wrestling content to enjoy. But all from a standpoint of fun and mutual respect.
The very name of BWN expresses its content and has for more than a decade. The subject/issue of interracial wrestling subject matter has come up before and been politely rejected and responded to as contrary to the purpose of black vs black wrestling content. On top of the fact the internet has numerous places for non-black and interracial content, and VERY LITTLE content (outside of BWN) for black guys wrestling black guys, thus the very important void that BWN fills.
These letters are obviously someone’s personal and private interracial fantasy/fetish based in stereotypical roles, where he is seeking/fishing for blacks who are into scenes where racial stereotypes and mutual disrespect get him off! To which normally I would say, to each his own, while sadly that would be offensive to most black men. And I guess I am finding it difficult to understand the purpose, why share it here?!!
I say why here because there are soooooo many other sites where interracial wrestling and fantasies like this could work! Speaking from a personal point of view, as a black gay male into wrestling, I have wrestled black guys, as well as men of other colors, races, etc. And even though, I am glad to say most of my experiences were positive. And while safe, sane role playing, challenges, trash talk based in mutual respect is great, there is a line where I have personally encountered and been made aware by many of my black wrestling friends and contacts not to cross when it comes to interracial wrestling and being subjected to situations where we are objectified, reduced to racist stereotypes and disrespect to satisfy someone’s fantasy.
I have been personally approached by similar guys and asked if they could use terms like boy, the “N” word of course, and other derogatory references based in racial stereotypes so they could get off, which I rejected!
This clearly is a white guy who seeks black men for his role playing based on his desire to be dominated through his fantasies of black male stereotypes of us being thugs, violent, having a superior sexual size, strength, dominance, etc.
Basically, this really should be a moot subject since this site and content is not interracial, but then this is also why I hope you can see this stands out as a sensitive subject.
I imagine the writer just wanted what he wanted, and he was both naive and ignorant to how his views of black men could be offensive to some. But then it was private between whomever he sent it to, and they, if the person was black, lead him to feel comfortable enough to follow it up with a second letter. Which makes sense because it was private between the writer and the reader.
Which gets back to the question, why share a racially charged/based interracial fantasy between two consenting adults here?
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