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jtpoenix03, LOL, I am not sure if I am supposed to respond to your inquiry since I am Black, lol. I guess you are saying you are also Black and wondering?
I am guessing, you may not get many responses to this inquiry (smile) because I imagine some would rather not reveal their color. From enjoying the Friday chats, there are guys of different races and colors in the chat room every week and the subject rarely comes up.
One suggestion buddy, I find people tend to open up more when we first share our story/experience. So maybe if you share what is the BWN appeal or draw for you regarding wrestling?
I know for me, my first exposure to wrestling was through professional wrestling and there were very few black or men of color wrestling, so my first images of wrestlers were White males. Even as I was drawn to wrestling scenes in Gladiator and Tarzan movies, again they were white guys. But my strong desire from the image of two masculine males locked up grappling became the primary focus.
Growing up most of the people I grew up with were black and at first that is all I wrestled with (you know boys seem to naturally end up wrestling), but to be honest, as I got older it was a struggle to find other adult black guys who would admit they were turned onto/into wrestling. As I became more drawn to the feeling of eroticism I got from wrestling, I searched wrestling sites, companies from Old Reliable, BG Enterprise, BG East, On Top, etc., but few offered two black males wrestling each other, so that is why BWN.
Even though I had not had many interactions with white guys growing up, I was even more consumed with the desire to find another male to wrestle! The first thing in my search for wrestling was an ad I found in the Advocate gay newspaper looking to wrestle ended up being a Latino/Hispanic from Mexico. He was my first adult wrestling encounter. He even introduced me to oil wrestling. I then joined a wrestling club, but out of the 200 men listed I was one of three black guys, and one of the black guys did not want to wrestle other black guys (?) The other black guy, sadly did not live near me, but we did talk on the phone. So, my first time wrestling a white guy was from that club. It took me a long time, and lots of research to connect with other black guys into wrestling, and who were close enough to hook up for a match. But my passion and desire for wrestling convinced me to wrestle with Asian guys, guys from India (who love wrestling) and of course white guys. As I did, and bond with all types over our desire for wrestling, many of my white contacts told me of other black guys to meet (smile). Not sure my response is even touching on what you were asking non-blacks, LOL. But that was why I am interested in BWN because it is one of the only sources of seeing black guys wrestle, and to chat with others who enjoy watching brothers wrestle!
LOL, I know you did not ask for my two cents, lol, so just put me in a headlock or head scissors (hint!)
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