-
Posts
-
The Thrill of Wrestling covers a broad area for me and so many others! Like me, many of us may have started out getting that initial tingling or feeling in our groins while watching hot guys on professional wrestling in boots or barefoot, in form fitting trunks, lock up close and tight inside the squared circle to exchange wrestling holds and position that to me and I assume others, are like sexual positions where they are struggling chest to chest, crotch to bulging crotch (or at least I imagined there were bulges in their trunks) locked in tight Bearhugs, and/or flipped and put in a Full Nelson with the top guy’s chest pressed tight to his opponent’s back and his crotch pressed and in some cases grinding against the ass of his opponent’s thrashing body! As my mind watched the hot, masculine, struggles for dominance, I was aroused! Fast forward to searching for more direct erotic wrestling for gay/bi men, I came across BWN and realized like some other gay wrestling sites I did not have to fantasize that the pro wrestlers were getting hard and aroused grappling with each other, but true signs that some of the BWN wrestlers (Storm, Xtasy, Erotico, Inferno, Candyman, Ghost, Johnny, Willy, Tommie Boy, and others) like me get turned on and aroused when wrestling another guy or watching to hot guys stripped down barefoot in sexy gear exchanging holds and sometimes very homoerotic wrestling positions! Not to mention imagining or (for me) recalling a similar feel and smell of mansweat from armpits, crotches, thighs, ass cheeks, etc. while locked up with a wrestling buddy! And the satisfaction or thrill of wrestling featured fetishes, we see during a match like hot, close and tight Frottage, Facesitting, Feet (I admit I love that BWN focuses on the barefoot matches and camera angles of the brother’s feet), Nipple play, Spanking, Domination/Humiliation, Bondage, Sweat (armpits, crotches), to name a few! AM I THE ONLY ONE?!!
Thanks oedipdx! I guess it is hard for some guys to express openly how the eroticism of wrestling effects them. Over the years talking to guys who wrestled for BWN, BG/BG East, they still found/find it hard to talk about how and why they are turned on to wrestling. So it is nice when you, LLW, Tiger Thrilla Fan, Collin32, WrestleU2, leo7, bstok11, and others, even some of the guest BWN wrestlers open up and tak about how erotic wrestling is.
Perhaps it’s me, but it is HARD to watch BWN barefoot brothers in sexy gear locked up, tied up, tangled up, arms, legs, fingers, bare feet and toes and not get a RISE out of seeing and hear the flesh to flesh contact of the bodies smacking together, hand grasping for leverage and wrestling holds, the bulges (hopefully) in the pouch of their trunks!
The wrestling positions and the sound of heavy breathing so closely mirrors man sex, so it is HARD not to feel your own primal urges rising up as you watch the bodies roll and thrash around on the mat! But again, LOL, maybe it is just me!
Hello Folks,
I agree with all your comments. However, in some cases, the matches lack the true eroticism one would expect from an underground wrestling site. The potential is there but more and more the action is scripted or the wrestler has limitations. The action on the wrestling mat just doesn’t seem natural. For example, if two guys were in the ring dominating their opponent (and I am depicting an erotic match not a sex scene) what would you both do to your opponent? In reading your comments above, I expect most of you would have removed his trunks and started groping his ass/cock. And I bet my life saving that your cock would be hard as a rock. I don’t want to sound to critical but those last two releases were a big disappointment. I guess I expect too much!
I was totally confused with the match between Mustang and Chris. Chris wanted him in the bedroom but affraid to go toe to toe with Mustang on the wrestling mat??? Like that match between Ghost and Johnny. Johnny was tossed around and beat up but he definately knew what he wanted and would take whatever Ghost dished out to get it. So did Chris want Mustang???
Has Candyman gone soft??? And we need to up the notch on his wrestling attire. Has he ever worn a thong or jockstrap ( I do know the answer to my question.) In his other 2 on 1 match were he wore the red, white and blue singlet he looked hot. I wished he would have positioned his cock up rather than down in his gear. I would have loved to seen a pick of his hard cock! And for the record, he is my favorite wrestler. His persona is like “let’s wrestle and then fuck or is I am going to fuck you while we wrestle!” Please excuse the cursing!
Again, both matches had potential but due to the wrestler’s limitations they both fail short of being erotic. I would have expected more from a PPV event and thought that’s why it’s a PPV to display more action.
Let’s stay warm and healthy!
I hear you and enjoyed your comments. I hear that from others here, or have been here as well, and hopefully BWN is/will listen to customer feedback (smile). That is why feedback, I think is important, to provide different points of view and insight on what guys see, think, and would like to see.
I just hope my references to my connection of wrestling for me and the awakening of my gay urges of physical contact with other males, did not indicate my primary focus was sex! Wrestling, again for me, whether competitive or messing around (and I am speaking from my own dozens and dozens of wrestling encounters over the years, competitive, submission, erotic, oil, etc.) had many elements to it, the challenge, the desire for domination/humiliation, test of strength and endurance, the desire for the feel and smell of sweat (from armpits, crotches, etc.), the fact most matches are barefoot, and the many other ways wrestling can combine with our individual fetishes and desires, and turn ons.
From the Friday night chats, I have also listened and learned, not all the guys who join in, buy videos, physically wrestle. So, the focus for them may be different than those who see wrestling leaning more to their percentage of sport vs the eroticism and as foreplay to sex! I can see both sides, because I have experienced wrestling based on sport and eroticism, and to be honest wrestling for me is sex just through the body contact, whether competitive or not.
I have expressed my own desires to see more storylines, different locations (hotel rooms; brother brings up room service and one word leads to another, ending in a wrestling match; bedrooms—Bed Matches (two tops hook up and can’t decide who will top so they challenge each other to wrestle for it), living room (two guys watching a Football or Basketball games turns into wrestling), outdoors; (two brothers camping ends in wrestling), other more natural set ups/preludes to a match vs, just guys hitting the mat. As well as seeing better wrestling holds/positions, but then many of the guys I don’t think really have much wrestling experience. I can relate because most black guys, like myself did not wrestle in school, so for me, I had to learn from watching, gaining more experience from my own matches, etc.
Again, I hear, understand, and have commented on some of the same or similar frustrations, but how do we balance that with the fact BWN is the only wrestling site, since Old Reliable stopped doing wrestling videos years ago, that you can find and see black males wrestling other black males. This is rare, if at all with BG/BG Enterprise, On Top, and other videos, or porn movies pretending to have a wrestling theme that is either really awful, and/or the wrestling last five or ten minutes if that!
My comments regarding BWN, were based on many factors. For me, as a black male (like so many other guys here) that got my first introduction into the connection of realizing gay urges, was awakened by seeing male contact, and that was through professional wrestling and/or classic gladiator (Sword and Sandal) movie fight/wrestling scenes, Tarzan (hot barefoot, man to man scenes like in Tarzan and the Great River, with Mike Henry, and Gordon Scott…..). The bottom line, I can’t speak for others, but I was aroused then, and as I discovered gay wrestling videos, I am aroused now, I won’t deny my dick gets hard! LOL!
The subject you mention “the matches lack the true eroticism one would expect from an underground wrestling site.” I agree the potential is there. BWN providing the number of black guys wrestling, means a lot of them are more gay-for-pay, and not really gay or even bi, so the action may be scripted, or the wrestler has limitations, that’s my guess. Getting back the issue of so many black guys not having formal wrestling experience, it can show up on the wrestling mat where it may not seem natural.
I love the discussion, and hearing, exchanging our desires and points of view on what we like, who like to see, and enjoy from BWN.
I know BWN needs to sell new content because it is a business and I ain’t mad at em, but I admit I do find myself going back to some of the older BWN wrestling tapes and DVDs when matches like Storm vs Erotico, Xtasy, and Inferno, which all I think had a good balance of wrestling and eroticism (well they made my dick hard, so I may be biased, LOL), and the African series was good for those who wanted it all competitive.
What would be your description of the kind of match you would buy and enjoy? I know I have my Wishlist (smile).
Hello BFW and others reading our BLOG – LOL Wow BFW, we have a lot in common on how our gay urges blossomed. And the bottom line (at least for me) it was not about sex. I get more pleasure jacking off to watching wreslting than porno. You can say it, “I am an odd ball.” After reading your comments, it hit me. I like wrestling not necessarily for the competativeness but as a voyeur hoping to see the wrestler’s exposed cock and or ass as they toss around on the mat.
So let’s go back to the very beginning with Tarzan. I enjoyed the fact he was engaged in wrestling the bad guy but what I really want to see was the goods underneath his loincloth. I recall a scene where Gordon Scott was wrestling the bad guy and you could see his balls during a bearhug. Another favorite was watching Buster Keaton wrestle or swinging from tree to tree with his trunks wedged up his ass so deep you would need our teeth to pull them out of his ass. I could go on and on with similar scenarios but I am sure you get the picture.
So advancing forward, wrestling was like a drug, I always wanted more to simulate the fantasy. Now here comes the juicy part: I love seeing the wrestlers give each other a wedgie for leaverage. I enjoy seeing the print of a hard cock in tight forming gear. I enjoy seeing thick bushy pubic hairs as a trailer to the base of the cock. The separation of butt hairs after wedging the opponents trunks deep into his ass. Any kind of wrestling holds that puts the wrestler on full display. I am not into ball bashing or anyother painful maneuvers to the cock. However, I do like to see the struggle between opponents as they rip off each other trunks. The body contact is not a prelude to sex for me and a partner. But an image for the viewer (me) to masterbate. That is what works for me!
There is only one match that comes to mind and that is Candyman vs. Japan. The match has all the whitsles and bells. The only thing it lacked was a gay cameraman. I wanted to see more nude wrestling with both wrestlers on full display. This shying away from the camera is absolute BULL SHIT!. If this was a live performance and the wrestlers were hiding their dicks or not facing the audience, I would walk out of the arena and demand a refund.
Sorry to sound so cynical but the industry has not treated us, the consumer fairly. So anymore, I just wait for the wrestling matches to be copied to another Website. I am tired of purchasing matches that do not deliver. Look on the brightside, if I am disappointed with the performance, I am glad I did not pay.
So you say I am cheating the performers out of their pay. Well, the performers need to fulfill their obligation like any other job. When was the last time you told your boss, I don’t do that? If performers want paid for being gay than be gay and if wrestlers has any inhibitions, they are in the wrong occupation.
I am of sound mind and body and I have a good heart just tired of the being manipulated. I am happy and fully retired with not worries but I am blunt about the truth of my feelings. Please BFW and others do not take offense.
Well I guess these will be may last words on this blackboard. I am glad I still have my VHS tape player and tapes! Now that was erotic wrestling with no holds barred!
Signing out
shortshorts_1999 I sincerely hope that was not your last on the blackboard, because again I enjoyed reading your and oedipdx’s response! And if you are an Odd Ball, then so am I, because as I said, wrestling is sex to me! I am not attracted to porn wher men just screw, I much rather see them wrestle with lots of hot wrestling holds and positions, with Frottage, dry humping and thrashing bodies all tangled arms, legs, fingers and toes! So unless it is presented in a wrestling encounter, a wrestling theme etc. I am not drawn to it! So much of what you said about wrestling, Tarzan (the Gordon Scott wrestling/fight scene for me growing up was so hot to j/o to! And I not only saw his balls during the tussling, but the way his loin cloth kept flapping up showing his ass cheeks). Before actual Wrestling videos online featuring gay men wrestling, I would record and save old Tarzan and Gladiator movies like the wrestling scenes in Terror of the Steppe, Hercules vs Sampson, the wrestling scene in the “Last Days of Pompeii” mini series to name a few! Those scenes were enough to j/o to initially, but like you said the drug of erotic male wrestling advanced for me, and yes Candyman vs Japan did represent BWN at its best!
It is HARD for me to see really erotically intense wrestling holds and positions between guys and neither ever show a hard on, especially after massaging/covering each other from head to toes with oil, or just the body contact! I love I can see the outline or tent of Candyman’s hard on, the same with Storm, Erotico, Xtasy, Ghost, Japan, Inferno, the “Wrestling for a Job” video, etc. Matches where I can see the wrestlers are getting aroused/turned on by the man to man body contact!
So much of your view of eroticism with wrestling rang home for me, so it would be a loss if you choose to never comment anymore man!!! Do I have to put you in a headlock or pin you down to stay?!! LOL!
oedipdx I missed Friday’s chat, was there more on the oil wrestling match between Willy and Thrilla?!! It looked pretty hot, but could not tell much from the 24 seconds, lol. Was anything else exciting?!!
I see the 51 second version of Willy vs Thrilla, and from the description (Willy following in Storm’s foot steps) it would strongly imply this oil match is going to be more erotic than the previous oil matches?!!
If Willy is indeed taking his wrestling lead from Storm’s playbook, then I am really hoping that during this match, one or both of them has the normal Storm throbbing hard on during the wrestling and thrashing of bodies!!! Please let this live up to the hype because there is so much potential here with Thrilla’s hot body from head to toes, glistening with oil and slipping, sliding, humping, grinding, squeezing, and grappling with Willy! Storm makes and drives the erotic and sensual chemistry in his matches and it will be HARD not to expect something similar from Willy!!! This picture is showing oil slick bodies that show off well formed asses and other body parts, nice bare feet, and oily dick and balls flopping and bouncing. So it is HARD not to expect all the oily body contact not to get a RISE out of either Willy and/or Thrilla!
Both are (from the clip) exchanging wrestling holds and positions riding each other, how could one or both not RISE to the challenge?!! Please BWN let this be the case, let it be true!!!
Hey BFW. (Missed you on Friday),
I really enjoyed the Willy vs Thrilla match this week. I know that I am in the minority in that I usually am not a fan of oil matches. But it seemed right for these two. The pre-match is definitely explicitly erotic, with Storm and Willy kissing while Storm works on Willy’s nipples.
I sometimes feel like Thrilla isn’t enjoying his matches much—-maybe he’s not the type to show much emotion. But he sure seemed to be enjoying himself in this one—they both did. Hot spanking, a bit of nipple teasing, and a four-footed finish that had me squirming. Willie’s confidence seems to be growing—as was his dick when Storm was around.
Yes I did miss you guys, but I was out all day, and it rained here ALL DAY! LOL! I was out with friends, so when I got home I lost track of time! I don’t usually get caught sleeping (good way to get pinned, I have had a few guys wanting to pin me while I was sleeping, lol!)
Yes it seems Willy and Storm have great chemistry, both love wrestling, find it very erotic and they both get hard when wrestling, and they like kissing during wrestling! Thrilla is a very hot, sexy guy, but like Chris, he tends to hold back or maybe they are just not really turned on like that about wrestling or the body contact(????)
It would be hot for BWN to create a separate category of wrestling where we know we will see the outline of bulges/hard ons, and/or them coming out of the trunks! That way for those who feel let down or expect stiff woodies, hard ons, throbbing shafts, know which videos to choose! Or do a compilation of BWN wrestlers who show their passion and desire for masculine wrestling and the primitive urges it releases sensually and sexually like Storm, Erotico, Xtasy, Inferno, Willy, Candyman, (also the guys wrestling in the Wrestling for a Job, and Sagger videos).
BFW—I just re-watched the Claymore Alexander vs Drew match. I would love to see Claymore go up against either Jack Flash, Willy, or Lick Lick. I think that couldn’t help but be very erotic.
oedipdx, I have only seen the clip of him and Drew and based on that vs the many online matches I have seen from him, they were much more erotic where each time he was fully aroused and in some cases nude and the same. I don’t get the impression Drew is willing to go that far! I could be wrong but have not seen it from him thus far.
So Claymore would be better with someone like Storm who would make the wrestling interesting as well as erotic! Well that is what I think (smile). Willy, Lick Lick, etc. are sexy and sensual, but they are not very competitive in the process.
Claymore is great at both and it is kind of a waste he is not matched with someone to give him a real challenge as well as intense chemistry I have seen from Claymore!
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.
